We all face difficult decisions in life—whether it’s about our careers, relationships, or personal growth. The decision-making process itself can feel overwhelming, leaving us unsure of which path to take. Should you stay in your current job or pursue a new career? Is it time to leave a relationship, or is there more to explore? Life is full of twists and turns, and making the right choices can be stressful. But here’s the thing: you don’t have to navigate these challenges on your own.

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 As a life coach, I often see clients stuck in indecision, unsure how to move forward. They might feel confused, anxious, or frustrated, and sometimes they just need someone to help them cut through the fog and find clarity. Let’s talk about some real scenarios and how coaching can help in those moments of doubt.

“I have no idea which way to go.”

Maybe you’re at a career crossroads and don’t know where to start. Should you switch fields, go back to school, or start a side business? When faced with so many options, it can feel paralyzing.

One client I worked with was unsure whether to return to school for a master’s degree. They were passionate about several topics but didn’t know which path to choose or if they could commit to further education. We broke the decision down into smaller steps. I suggested they explore weekend workshops and network with professionals in the field to gather more information. By taking these small, manageable steps, they gained the clarity they needed to make an informed choice. Life coaching helps you slow down, evaluate each option, and test out new directions before committing to a decision.

“I’m scared to move forward.”

Sometimes, you have an idea of what you want, but fear holds you back. I once had a client who was struggling with whether to stay in their relationship or move on. It wasn’t that they didn’t know what they wanted—they were just afraid of making the wrong choice and regretting it later.

In this situation, it helps to address fear in small, actionable steps. Instead of deciding immediately whether to leave the relationship, we looked at specific areas that were causing unhappiness. Was it communication, time spent together, or something else? By identifying the root cause of their dissatisfaction, we were able to work on those smaller areas first. After addressing these issues, my client gained clarity and confidence, knowing they had done everything they could before making a final decision.

“I feel overwhelmed by too many decisions.”

It’s common to feel overwhelmed when life piles up—work, family, personal goals—and you feel like you can’t catch up. This was the case for my client Charmane, who was juggling both career and relationship challenges at once. The stress was affecting her emotionally and mentally.

Over the course of three months, Charmane and I worked through her struggles using centering and grounding techniques to calm her mind and reduce anxiety. Through this process, she was able to look at her career and relationship from a place of calm, making decisions that were aligned with her values rather than rooted in fear or frustration.

Charmane shared her experience:
“Facing both challenges at the same time was overwhelming. After working with Annie, I now have direction on both fronts and I feel more relaxed and optimistic. She kept me focused on seeking guidance from love, rather than fear. My anger and frustration abated, and I could see my options better. I would absolutely recommend Annie as a life coach to anyone at a crossroads or struggling with a life issue.”

Her story is a powerful reminder that we don’t always have to tackle everything at once. Life coaching helps break down your challenges, allowing you to see the path ahead more clearly.

“I’ve made a decision, but I keep second-guessing myself.”

You know that feeling when you commit to something but constantly doubt whether it was the right choice? A client of mine had decided not to work on weekends anymore but found it nearly impossible to stick to that decision. The guilt of letting go of weekend work kept her in a loop of anxiety, even though she knew she needed the rest.

We tackled this in two ways. First, we worked on practical strategies to manage her workload during the week, giving her the freedom to enjoy her weekends guilt-free. Second, we addressed the emotional aspect—the fear of “falling behind” that was fueling her anxiety. By handling both the logistical and emotional sides of the problem, she was finally able to honor her decision and feel good about it.

“I’m facing a major life decision and need help.”

Many clients come to coaching when they’re at a major life juncture, such as deciding whether to get married, go through with a divorce, switch careers, or start a family. These decisions carry a lot of weight, and it can feel like there’s no right answer. Coaching helps you sort through the emotions tied to these big decisions and provides the tools to evaluate them more objectively.

For example, one client was grappling with whether to leave a high-paying corporate job and follow her passion for starting her own business. The financial risk felt enormous, and she was afraid of failing. Through our sessions, we worked on building a plan that allowed her to start small, test her business idea on the side, and gather information before making the full transition. By the time she left her job, she felt empowered and confident in her decision.


Similarly, I recently worked with a client who was deciding whether to relocate for a new job opportunity. It was a significant decision, as it would mean leaving behind family and friends while pursuing a major career advancement. Together, we explored the emotional impact of the move, the potential for growth, and how it aligned with their long-term goals. Through our conversations, they were able to make a decision that felt right both professionally and personally.

Why Life Coaching Works for Decision-Making

Many people assume decision-making is all about logic, but emotions play a huge role, too. Coaching offers a space where you can explore your feelings without judgment, weigh your options, and make decisions that are aligned with your values.

Unlike therapy, which often focuses on understanding your past, coaching is about forward momentum and actionable steps. It’s designed to help you move past indecision and gain clarity, using practical tools that fit your life. And sometimes, having a coach who understands your spiritual or personal practices can add an extra layer of support, grounding your decisions in what matters most to you.

For example, I worked with a client who was unsure whether to retire or keep working. We explored what each option would mean for their sense of purpose and identity. By reflecting on their core values and creating a vision for the future, they felt empowered to make a decision they were at peace with.

Practical Tools for Making Hard Decisions

When you’re facing a difficult decision, life coaching provides practical tools to help you navigate:

1. Breaking the problem into smaller steps – Rather than tackling the whole decision at once, coaching helps you take small actions to gather information, test out options, and reduce overwhelm.

2. Managing fear and uncertainty – We explore the fears and doubts that are keeping you stuck, helping you find ways to move forward despite uncertainty.

3. Aligning decisions with values – Together, we identify what matters most to you so your decision feels authentic and aligned with your goals.

4. Action plans and accountability – Coaching provides actionable steps and consistent support, keeping you on track as you navigate tough decisions.

How Coaching Can Help You Today

No matter what decision you’re facing—whether it’s changing jobs, starting a business, or making a major life change—coaching can give you the clarity and confidence to move forward. By addressing both the emotional and practical aspects of decision-making, coaching ensures you make choices that are aligned with who you truly are.

If you’re ready to move past indecision and gain clarity, let’s talk. You don’t have to navigate these challenges alone.
Schedule a chat today to explore how life coaching can help you.

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